I might regret sharing my romantic endeavors later. Writing about my romantic endeavors first started here: https://heididates.tumblr.com/, where this blog started on a whim as a joke amongst friends that thoroughly lived vicariously through my romantic life encouraged me to post it on the internet. After a period of time, I stopped posting and or writing. After several years of sharing my experiences, testing dating apps, and sharing of my contemplations about love and relationships, I no longer felt the drive to write anymore.

There was something about feeling lost, not sure what I was doing anymore with my love life, and feeling crushed at the thought that the life that I thought I was supposed to be living, was not happening. Especially when it came to love.

After several years of no longer keeping up with my Tumblr blog, many events have occurred, many dates, many thoughts, and many meditative contemplations. Much of who Heidi is now as a mid-30 year old is a very different Heidi that used to write in the old Tumblr blog. My thoughts and or stances have changed, and as I go back and read my old self, a lot of it doesn’t resonate with me today. I also find that my experiences have shifted a lot now that I’m older.

With that said, I share with you a little piece of my life and my romantic endeavors in hopes to normalize dating when we are a little bit older, find a laugh or a content nugget that provokes thought, and to encourage all my friends who are single and wanting to find love that they are not alone. I’m hopeful and praying for all of us single folks wanting love, that we will find the love that we dream and deeply desire for.