Out In The Club

Like any cordial person, I asked, “What did you do over the weekend?”

“SUP and went to a club.”

Me taking a mental note of he’s turning 40 and still clubbing. “Oh cool. What is SUP and which club did you go to?” Trying to quiet the voice and initial feelings of aversion as I try to practice being open and let it slide as perhaps, maybe it’s just a one time thing.

I ask another weekend of what he did, and the response again was, “I went to a club.” The many subsequent weekends I would ask about his weekends and consistently his response was, “I went to a club”.

So many mental and or rhetorical questions arise: I can’t recall the last time I went clubbing and I’ve never gone to any festivals as an adult so it makes me wonder, is it conflicting when our lifestyles are different? Do I give guys a chance when they are still dancing into their 40’s+? Don’t we all stop at some point clubbing/going to festivals and when does it stop? Or does inebriated happy feet have no weight into the character and heart of a man? Is it me that’s missing out? (LOL) There are so many more important qualities and details about someone to be particular about, but is night life of “clubbing” one of them?

SHRUG

I find that I’m dating like this a lot of times: "What's dating like in your 40's", Comedian Zainab Johnson Just crossing sh*t off and working with clubbers.